Well well well. If this isnt a symbolic sign I dont know what is...the very fact that I decided to come back on here and see that for once Urban Tribesman has been called out publicly.
Wriggle your way out by all means, I couldnt care less how you try to justify yourself and the disgusting content that was posted on here. And as for Alison...I couldnt give less of a crap.
whispered said:It's frustrating when other people don't see the world as we do, but isn't that how we learn
That is exactly the point. We haven't learned a fucking thing. We are still rooting around like the stupid cavemen before we crawled out of the cave. Humanity has bamboozled itself thoroughly.
Any man that can last as long as he desires at heterosexual intercourse, please raise a hand. Didn't think so.
I'm sorry, I left the women out. Any woman that has been with a man that can last as long as she desires at heterosexual intercourse, please raise a hand. Didn't think so.
The real problem isn't that men are bad at heterosexual intercourse. It is that we have lied to ourselves about it throughout all of our long existence. We have built up a fictional existence. All because men can't keep it up and humanity hasn't admitted it. The fact is there is no reason for men to be so bad at sexual intercourse. We have put ourselves in an untenable situation for no good reason. So very animal of us. I prefer to be human.
You see? You thought you were the rare exception, right? Just unlucky? The opposite is true. Almost no one is getting good heterosexual intercourse regularly.
You're probably saying, "so what?" It's not so much that men are lousy at sexual intercourse. It is that we have never admitted the fact for thousands of years. That seriously screwed us up from the beginning.
I hope you realize, now, that the arguments/viciousness towards LGBTQWXYZ are not really about alternate lifestyles? It's about good ol' reliable that has never been reliable at all but can be. One big difference is that a heterosexual that is enjoying the experience is not going to be threatened by alternate lifestyles.
ALL of the insanity is because we have created a fiction out of heterosexual intercourse. It doesn't need to be a fiction.
I feel like I'm still being cryptic. That is not my intent. I am trying to plainspeak something that has haunted us for, at least, many thousands of years. It defines our existence. Tell me how economics, governments, religions, or any institutional development compares in any way to something so fundamental to our existence? This is not about what we diddle around with. This goes to who we are and the detritus of thousands of years of delusions.
Just like every sexual life form before us, we are physiologically predisposed to "get 'er done". Unlike every sexual life form before us, we are aware of the implications of the animal approach of just getting it done in a hurry. That's the real problem. We should have realized long ago that we are not limited by the physiological constraints that an animal is not even aware of nor content with the physiological and emotional results of "getting it done". Instead, due to inertia and our growing stupour regarding the subject, we just accept the situation as is while the lies we tell ourselves and the blind confusion continues to build. We can change it all.
You thought you had a rare affliction. Or, it was just your bad luck. Nope. Essentially, no one is having good heterosexual intercourse. That is just the first of many deceptions we have inflicted on ourselves. All because guys haven't figured out how to keep it up. It's so dead easy, it's embarrassing.
We have not adapted to the realization that there is still more to sex than an animal could ever imagine. We have hid from it, instead. The ramifications are endless and reach back to our very beginnings. Many have always fallen back on changing the game. But, nothing beats the face to face loving tangle when it works. Sex needs to be reinvented for humans to become human, sane, balanced, and rational. We don't need to change the game. We can rewrite the rules. It's what we do.
Funny thing, the female spirit. I adore it, right down to my bones. What I finally realized, though, is that we often confuse the the pure human part of woman with the feminine because it is so seldom seen in the male. The human spirit, when it reveals itself, is glorious. It is usually humbled out of a man over a lifetime for the obvious reason. The human spirit is what distinguishes us from the beasts. Women have it. Men can attain it. It is the most beautiful part of being human. It's just been impeded by bullshit.
I can't believe I even have to say that. Three thousand years after we supposedly gained some sense and I have to explain what "distinguish us from the beasts" means. Our stupour amazes me.