I stopped using that phrase when I realized a simple truth: if a disparate human utterance conveys meaning, it's a word. Just ask Shakespeare.

Indeed, I may cringe at some words and certain usage.

I once informed the post office clerk that their sign should read "Cell Phone Use Prohibited at the Counter," rather than usage. The wiry-haired dam stared at me blankly for a few seconds before asking whether or not I'd like to purchase stamps.

'Gotta,' 'kinda,' and 'wanna' are spoken every day.